.Why You Need a Consultant.     ...

   Why You  Need a Wedding Adviser:

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    Planning Your Wedding: 

Each year, hundreds of people come to us looking for a wedding minister/officiant,  a ceremony location,  or some other aspect of their wedding.   Most couples have a rather limited level of knowledge and experience regarding two vitally important issues:     "How to Plan a Wedding"     and     "How to Plan a Marriage."

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    Planning Your  Marriage:

And you've probably also noticed that the so-called experts tell you absolutely nothing about what a marriage really is ' and even less about  planning your marriage.  TLC-Life-Center's Wedding Advisory service can fill in many of those missing pieces of information

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    An Unlimited budget: 

If you have an unlimited budget, then listen carefully to these people.  They will provide you with a splashing, dashing, all-the-bells-and-whistles, wedding celebration, which pretty much ignores the content of the ceremony, itself.   Go ahead and take the price of a brand new car or the down payment for your new home and spend that money on a party.   

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    A Reality Check: 

Can we get real for a moment?   If you're like the rest of us,  1) money matters,  2)  your wedding is a joyous heartfelt celebration of your love, and 3)  your marriage is deeper and more important than a party.   A wedding ceremony is not about impressing your friends, or having the correct table settings at the reception, or giving each of your guests a useless gift,  or wearing an outrageously expensive white dress.

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    There is another way: 

Your marriage is about the two of you.   It's about your love.   It's about the rest of your lives together.  It's about creating and maintaining a new family unit.   So if you want a lasting,  loving, joy-filled married life, you must intentionally create it.   Why?   Because, as divorce statistics so plainly tell us,  it's not going to happen by accident.  

I Can Handle This On My Own    I Can Handle This On My Own            ...         

We hear some people say:
       "I can handle this on my own." 
             "Why  pay you for advice?"       
                    "What do I need you for"

Here's Your Answer:   

Can you make changes and meet challenges on your own?   Of course you can!   So can almost everyone else who is not mentally of physically handicapped.  The question is not, " can you...?"   It's "Will you..."   It's not about ability.  It's about commitment, persistence, and integrity with yourself.   And then it's about recommitment, recommitment, and recommitment -- as many times as it takes and for as long as it takes to manifest your intended goal.

If you can create a satisfactory wedding celebration without our assistance, please do so.   If you can re-invent yourself as a new husband or as a new wife without anybody's assistance, please do so.   Unfortunately,  it's extremely difficult for most people to make significant changes in their lives:   1)  on their own,  2)  while living in their old environment and 3)  while associating with the people who helped them focus on creating what they no longer want.   If you think you can do this on your own,  We suggest five steps:

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1)  Look around you.   How successful are your friends, your family and your associates?   Those are your present role models for success.   Statistically speaking,  your chances of being significantly different from them without outside assistance is rather small.

2)   Find a partner to study with and for mutual support. 

3)   Find new friends who are in harmony with your new goals. 

4)   Stop viewing and listening to stories about experiences you don't want to have in your life.  

5)   Let us show what we have to offer by calling us for a free introductory session.    Call:

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