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   Why You  Need a Wedding Adviser:

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pink shinny bullet    Planning Your Wedding: 

Each year, hundreds of people come to us looking for a wedding minister/officiant,  a ceremony location,  or some other aspect of their wedding.   Most couples have a rather limited level of knowledge and experience regarding two vitally important issues:     "How to Plan a Wedding"     and     "How to Plan a Marriage."

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As a result, when planning their wedding, most couples listen to the advice of the so-called wedding experts.   If you haven't already noticed, the vast majority of these  people are merchants who  are trying to sell you something.   Thus, they have a conflict of interest between serving you and making money.   When those two interests are in conflict, guess where their primary loyalty lies?   

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pink shinny bullet    Planning Your  Marriage:

And you've probably also noticed that the so-called experts tell you absolutely nothing about what a marriage really is ' and even less about  planning your marriage.  TLC-Life-Center's Wedding Advisory service can fill in many of those missing pieces of information

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pink shinny bullet    An Unlimited budget: 

If you have an unlimited budget, then listen carefully to these people.  They will provide you with a splashing, dashing, all-the-bells-and-whistles, wedding celebration, which pretty much ignores the content of the ceremony, itself.   Go ahead and take the price of a brand new car or the down payment for your new home and spend that money on a party.   

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pink shinny bullet    A Reality Check: 

Can we get real for a moment?   If you're like the rest of us,  1) money matters,  2)  your wedding is a joyous heartfelt celebration of your love, and 3)  your marriage is deeper and more important than a party.   A wedding ceremony is not about impressing your friends, or having the correct table settings at the reception, or giving each of your guests a useless gift,  or wearing an outrageously expensive white dress.

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pink shinny bullet    There is another way: 

Your marriage is about the two of you.   It's about your love.   It's about the rest of your lives together.  It's about creating and maintaining a new family unit.   So if you want a lasting,  loving, joy-filled married life, you must intentionally create it.   Why?   Because, as divorce statistics so plainly tell us,  it's not going to happen by accident.  

There is another way.   So let us show you that way. 

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I Can Handle This On My Own    I Can Handle This On My Own            ...         

We hear some people say:
       "I can handle this on my own." 
             "Why  pay you for advice?"       
                    "What do I need you for"

Here's Your Answer:   

Can you make changes and meet challenges on your own?   Of course you can!   So can almost everyone else who is not mentally of physically handicapped.  The question is not, " can you...?"   It's "Will you..."   It's not about ability.  It's about commitment, persistence, and integrity with yourself.   And then it's about recommitment, recommitment, and recommitment -- as many times as it takes and for as long as it takes to manifest your intended goal.

If you can create a satisfactory wedding celebration without our assistance, please do so.   If you can re-invent yourself as a new husband or as a new wife without anybody's assistance, please do so.   Unfortunately,  it's extremely difficult for most people to make significant changes in their lives:   1)  on their own,  2)  while living in their old environment and 3)  while associating with the people who helped them focus on creating what they no longer want.   If you think you can do this on your own,  We suggest five steps:

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1)  Look around you.   How successful are your friends, your family and your associates?   Those are your present role models for success.   Statistically speaking,  your chances of being significantly different from them without outside assistance is rather small.

2)   Find a partner to study with and for mutual support. 

3)   Find new friends who are in harmony with your new goals. 

4)   Stop viewing and listening to stories about experiences you don't want to have in your life.  

5)   Let us show what we have to offer by calling us for a free introductory session.    Call:

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What Do You Know About Weddings?

Where did that information come from?    Is it accurate?   Is it up-to-date.   Was the information you received pure or was it  presented to you with a hidden intention underneath the surface.    

Remember, you learned most of what you know about weddings from only two sources:   1)  from your family and your social group, and 2) from  people who had an interest in programming your mind to buy what they had to sell.   

Family Traditions  Now, I'm not knocking your family traditions, but you might want to re-assess some of them in light of the present-day information.   Those tradition are true and valid in their own context, and at the same time, life may be a bit bigger than those traditions allow for.    So if you choose to walk that fine line between the old and the new,  we can be very helpful. 

Intentional Message Senders  Your second most influential  source of wedding knowledge probably came to you via your television.   Most of those programs, as entertaining and as informative as they may have been, were at least in part, infomercials.    In other words, they were programs designed to condition your mind to by the products and services that the wedding industry is striving to sell to you.  There were a hidden message in those programs.  

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If you think all that stuff you just have to have for your wedding is really necessary, you've bought into the programming.   Call us.   We'll help you see your wedding from a much more objective perspective.   

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